Friend, my family and I do our best to walk with the Lord, daily. Although we are not immune to the enemies’ schemes and wicked ways of dividing and causing chaos. I can say, however, having that relationship with God is what gets us through those attacks.  For instance, the other day, was tough. Every one seemed to be on everyone’s nerves and there was more fighting than laughter. When these days occasionally happen, which sometimes they do; my heart hurts. These sorts of days leave me feeling defeated and in an extra need for God’s rescuing. I hate fighting, especially in my own home. Though I am sure you can relate my friend. For nobody is immune to the enemies’ attacks and no family is perfect. Before we went to bed that night, there was some peace, though still some hurt feelings. The next day went better and it was evident things had smoothed over. Before we got to that point, however, there needed to be good communication and some time to calm our nerves. By God’s grace, He helped us work through it. To most people, their family is the most special people to them, that they hold especially dear to. The enemy likes to at times, divide that. That night everyone was stressed, and we admittingly went to bed without reading our Bible. For by the time, we finished talking it out, the hour grew late and we were all so tired. So not only did we quarrel, we did not read our Bible. That night the enemy had a win, though not victory. For we did work through it and learn. God was with us the whole time and the next morning was a new day to better walk with the Lord. Friend, the enemy loves to divide us; from each other and most importantly, God. May we remember who the real villain is when a fight ensues and chaos begins. May we go to God to help us though it. For the enemy is a thief of joy and comes to wreak havoc. God, however, is the giver of joy who comes to give us peace. May we choose wisely how to fight. Also, may we remember no family is perfect, but God’s love is and it is love that will see us through it all.

Erin Fitts-Brower

Matthew 12:25 NIV

Jesus knew their thoughts and said to them, “Every kingdom divided against itself will be ruined, and every city or household divided against itself will not stand.

John 10:10 NIV

The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full.

Ephesians 6:11 NIV

Put on the full armor of God, so that you can take your stand against the devil’s schemes.

Ephesians 4:31-32 NIV

Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice. Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.  

Psalm 34:19 NIV

The righteous person may have troubles, but the LORD delivers him from them all;

Psalm 133:1 NIV

How good and pleasant it is when God’s people live together in unity!