There are choices in this world that I do not agree with. Choices that I know are against God. I have people in my life that do things that are not aligned with the Bible. Things that go against my faith. I still love these people. I may be disappointed, concerned and hope that someday they will see truth; but it does not stop me from showing kindness and love. Though I may have reservations and boundaries, I also still have kindness to give and love to offer. God himself shows me the same, when I have made poor decisions. Kindness does not mean agreeance. It means being kind, despite it. Love does not mean you accept the behavior, but that you care, despite it. It is easy to be angry about it. Though what good does the reaction of anger do, but cause more strife than first began? Maybe the best way to love a wrong, is walk away and let God make it right. Kindness is not acceptance; it is a part of love. Sometimes it looks like stating that we do not agree, then walking away. It is letting them know that it is wrong, but in a loving way. Choosing to pray for them and letting God address it. Friend standing up for our faith and morals is vital. Sticking up for God is essential, but it is in the how we do it. Being mean only further separates. Dividing what good could come from bad. Handling things wisely however, and letting our anger be instead directed with love; allows for people to better see God in us. It is there where hearts can be truly changed. For fire fought with fire keeps the flame burning. But a kind word and a loving heart, allows for a positive change. Keeping in mind that if their hearts do not change, that is between them and God. But if we keep putting our hope in God and obeying His word and offering love; then we will have done what we are called. Friend, do not let another’s poor choice, become your own by your response to it.

Erin Fitts-Brower

Psalms 37:8 NIV

Refrain from anger and turn from wrath; do not fret-it leads only to evil.

Ephesians 4:26 NIV

In your anger do not sin. Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry.

Romans 12:19 NIV

Do not take revenge, my dear friends, but leave room for God’s wrath, for it is written: ‘It is mine to avenge; I will repay, ‘says the Lord.

Proverbs 29:11 NIV

Fools give full vent to their rage, but the wise bring calm in the end.

Ephesians 4:31-32 NIV

Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice. Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.